No they're not just crazy, hormonal, or defiant.
It's a cry for help
Links to resources for those parenting a child, have a friend or loved one, or themselves may be suffering from a mental health problem.
Quotes Borrowed from youthdynamics.org
“Challenging behavior occurs when the demands and expectations being placed upon a child outstrip the skills they have to respond"
“Beneath every behavior there is a feeling, and beneath each feeling there is a need. When we meet that need rather than focusing on the behavior, we begin to deal with the cause not the symptom.”
Autism
Autism Speaks - https://www.autismspeaks.org/
Child Mind Institute - https://childmind.org/guide/parents-guide-to-autism/
Anxiety
Anxiety
Anxiety & Depression Association of America - https://adaa.org/
Child Mind Institute - https://childmind.org/topics/anxiety/#anxiety-and-kids-the-basics
Oppositional Defiance Disorder
Very Well Mind - https://www.verywellmind.com/before-you-look-for-information-on-odd-3106614
Child Mind Institute - https://childmind.org/guide/quick-guide-to-oppositional-defiant-disorder/
ADHD/ADD - yes its real, trust me I know
This is just a very short list of resources I've used. There are many, many more. If you know of any that you've found a major help in yours, or your child life let me know and I'll add it to the list's.